This is a poem I wrote at about 8-months sober - when I was sometimes a very angry two-year old in the
body of a woman – bargaining with God and throwing a tantrum whenever I thought
about a lifetime of sobriety. This homage to my “Ex” was written during such a
tantrum…interesting to see, not only the addiction talking, but the depression
seeking its own balm.
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i
alone
i was born alone
i
cry alone
i’ll
die alone
i am an alcoholic…alone
alone in a crowded meeting,
as everyone around me is brow-beating,
and rehashing the same story ten times
over.
alone
in a group of my former “drinking
buddies”,
as they nod and smile,
breathe a tinny word of encouragement,
and quickly change the subject.
alone when they turn to each other and
whisper,
“oh, she’s just a hypochondriac…”
i used to be
alone with my green glass bottle,
but never felt alone.
my bottle never droned on and on and
on
in self-deprecation, and never talked
about me behind my back.
it just sat there
calmly
on the grocery store shelf,
waiting,
holding in it all the promise of a sunrise
and the comfort of moonlight.
standing there in the store alone,
staring at the rows of shiny bottles perched
like sentinels guarding a deep, dark
secret ,
gleaming like gemstones in a stream,
i reached for the shiniest.
standing in the kitchen alone,
i felt contentment well up inside me
as i stuck the screw
into the soft, brown cork,
twisted it in
and…POP!
playful gurgling, as if from some
mystic brook,
as the wine slipped out of the bottle,
and wound around the inside of my
glass like a bloody serpent.
held to the light, it was a garnet
sea.
held to my nose, a decent into the
earth
damp
moss,
aging
wood,
cool
stone,
brooding
darkness
on my tongue
it was celestial!
i let the first sip linger for a
moment
penetrating my darkness like a warm
arrow,
slicing through my solitary world.
i gently swallowed and suddenly
i
was no longer
alone
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…but you
know, I truly was alone.
Addiction
fostered isolation. The center of my universe, that to me was the sun, was really a black hole. No light escaped its reach and no social
interaction got in the way of the drink. The drink came first.
Seductive,
alluring…deceptive, it seeped into my skin and my psyche and made upside-down
seem rightside-up.
I am grateful to be 7-years sober and do not want to ever go back that dark mirage again!
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